So, maybe wait a while before getting ‘Life’s a Bitch’ inked on your thigh.We know; you’ve spent months or even years knowing almost every detail of your partner’s life and now, nothing. But whatever you do, try to resist the temptation to keep a foothold in their life by checking up on them.Give yourself time to recover and then, when you’re ready, you can start looking for love again. We all know at least one person who’s had a break-up makeover.Sometimes it works, but usually cutting off your long blonde locks and dying your new crop black just to show you’re a ‘new’ person becomes something you regret.Burning the stuff he left at your house, or kidnapping her cat might be tempting, but the outcome is pretty inevitable: you will look mentally imbalanced and you may even end up in trouble with the police. In all honesty, sleeping with anyone when you’re newly heartbroken is not a great idea.Focus on the positive, and turn your energies to getting on with your life rather than regressing. Your judgement is clouded and just because your friend happens to be in the right place at the right time doesn’t mean getting naked together will make you feel better.You need to grieve the loss of the relationship – if you don’t you’ll find it even harder to move on.This process might seem embarrassing but ultimately showing your emotions will help you grow emotionally.
Begging isn’t a great look for dogs, but in humans it’s just desperate. ’ but in this situation, keeping your dignity is essential.
Potentially, you might salvage a friendship from the wreckage some time down the line, but when you’re emotionally raw you need time apart from the source of your hurt.
If you burnt your hand on a fire, you wouldn’t return to the fire to try and soothe your burn would you?
Focus on your own life and try to stop thinking about what they may or may not be doing without you.
Social media has opened up our world and helped us keep in touch with friends, family and people we didn’t even know we wanted to know.