There, she found a supportive group of friends, an apartment within walking distance of the city's hottest spots..absolutely no time to date.
"I'm a lawyer, and it's a job that takes up a lot of time," she says.
I have a tendency to mess with my hair when I get nervous, so I start running my hands through it.
An hour or so into the date, he looks me straight in the eyes and says: ' You have got to stop touching your hair because it's driving me crazy.
One-in-five online daters have asked someone else to help write or review their profile.
Female users are seeking help from friends more so than men are: 30% of female users have asked a friend for help with their profile, whereas only 16% of male users have asked friends to help create their profile.
"There weren't a lot of people using the Internet to date back then," she says.
On the contrast, there are a lower number of users in Idaho, where 60% of the population is married.
If you're worried joining an online dating site sends a message that you're just looking for sex, it doesn't.
"I had to go to Kinko's and scan in a picture of myself for my profile." Soon after that, she was on a date.
"I met this guy for drinks, and everything was going fine.