Not many options, not that needed a spouse yet, but I was trying to be a good Christian man but horny as hell.There was this one girl that caught my eye and was about my age.
Everyone at JPUSA lived in small bedrooms with other people like dormitories, and you lived with your spouse and children if you were married.
Once I dropped religion and its unrealistic demands to the wayside, the more fulfilling my sex life got.
I don't carry the guilt and I can fully express what I want with my wife.
I kind of knew these things, but not in completion.
You learn these things as you mess up, get corrected by someone in leadership, or teased by a peer.