I'm a bigger guy with a lot of body hair and a beard.
I love that in the gay community there is a cute term for guys like me reflecting body positivity.
If you go to his or her place, always tell a trusted friend where you are going.
And when hooking up online, never use Craigslist." "Be cautious," said Ruff of Ruff's Stuff blog.
And You Tube has a channel for everyone in the kink spectrum from gay to straight to trans to nonbinary and beyond!
" "is a great option for gay men," said Metal from the gay male bondage website Metalbond
If you're a tad shy and work better online, these contingents have Facebook groups or Fet Life pages you can join.I'm a mid-20s, above-average-looking gay dude into spanking guys.The weird thing is, the only guys I can find to spank are straight. Seriously Perplexed And Needing Knowledge How do you know their new girlfriends don't start spanking them when you stop?"Eighty percent of success is just showing up," someone or other once said.The adage applies to romantic/sexual success as well as professional success, SACK, but showing up easily accounts for 90 percent of success in the BDSM/leather/fetish scene.(Also: There are tons of gay guys out there into spanking, SPANK.So if you aren't finding any, I can only conclude that you aren't looking.) I'm wondering about the application of the term "bear" to a straight man, such as myself.So fuck this guy, HOPEFUL, on your own terms—but don't be too quick to dismiss the possibility of an LTR.Great sex and a good friendship make up a solid foundation.It's been tough—my ex is a great guy, and causing him pain has been a loss on top of my own loss, but I know I did the right thing.Among other things, our sex life was bland and we had infrequent sex at best. He says he's open to my terms—open/fuck-buddy situation—but things have quickly become relationship-ish.